Heartstring tugging ways for girls to pass guys Valentine chocolates


With Valentine’s Day almost upon us, goo Ranking published the results of a ranking survey into heartstring tugging ways of passing Valentine’s chocolates, and as is the tradition in Japan, it was for men receiving them from women.



Over the 7th and 8th of December 2012 1,059 members of the goo Research monitor group completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 61.4% of the sample were female, 10.8% in their teens, 14.4% in their twenties, 24.9% in their thirties, 28.8% in their forties, 11.5% in their fifties, and 9.6% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample. This question was for the women only.

Note that there are two kinds of chocolates; obligatory chocolates that have to be handed out to every male in one’s workplace or class that have no romantic significance, and true love chocolates, the meaning of which should be obvious!

I don’t think I’d be really too impressed with any of the below, myself, except of course the no beating about the bush of number four!

Ranking result

Q: What ways of passing Valentine’s chocolates do you find tug at your heartstrings? (Sample size=409, male)

Rank Score
1Looking embarrassed and bashfully passing them100
2With her face bright red and saying “These aren’t obligatory chocolates”77.3
3With her face bright red and looking up through her eyelids75.9
4Coming straight out with it and saying “I love you!”66.0
5With damp eyes56.7
6Handing out chocolates to everyone, but whispering in my ear “Yours are the only non-obligatory…keep it a secret!”48.2
7Saying “I don’t need a gift in return on White Day, so instead we’ll go on a date”45.4
8Out of breath from chasing after me44.0
9Bumping into me by chance on the way home43.3
10=Passing with a slightly unsteady hand42.6
10=With a voice trembling with nerves42.6
12Saying “It’s the first time I’ve hand-made chocolates”41.8
13As we are parting, her suddenly calling out “Wait!”40.4
14Passing out the same obligatory chocolates as to everyone else, but when we are alone passing others with “These are true love chocolates”39.7
15Saying “Hide them quickly!” right after passing them31.9
16Passing them the night before saying “I wanted to be the first”30.5
17Passing them the next day saying “I should have given you them yesterday, but I was just too embarrassed…”27.0
18Forcing them into my hands and running away25.5
19Secretly sneaking them into my locker, bag, etc24.1
20Surreptitiously passing them to me on the bus, train home18.4
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  1. Daniel said,
    February 11, 2013 @ 09:32

    Yes same number 4 is my favourite too. I might be oblivious to the rest or wonder what they’re on about except if I found them in my bag & had a love note (I didn’t have lockers when I went to school) & the bus/train home thing might give me a clue. But yeah I’m very oblivious to things like this cause I don’t go getting my hopes up thinking that the girl might like me cause it’d be pretty embarrassing if she didn’t & I asked her out or something. Why don’t we have this in other countries with the Valentines day where girls give presents & White day where the guys give presents in return. I know the 15th of February is International Singles day, I don’t know if that’s true but that’s what it says on my Top Gear calendar & you don’t hear anything about it like no specials for single people just Valentines day which I bet there isn’t specials for couples that day either, I bet everything goes up in price just for couples XD. So yeah as you can see I’m single.

  2. NyNy said,
    February 12, 2013 @ 02:08

    Nice! The first one is something I’d definitely do, I’m not the outspoken type.

    By the way, I have my own blog which focuses on Asian culture and entertainment such as video games and I wonder if it is possible for you to view it and tell me what you think please: http://nynyonlinex.wordpress.com

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