By Ken Y-N ( September 15, 2010 at 23:45)
· Filed under Polls, Society
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From my point of view, honeymoons are all part of getting married, so I cannot understand why this survey from iShare into honeymoons found that just a third of unmarried Japanese thought a honeymoon was essential.
Demographics
Between the 20th and 25th of August 2010 450 members of the CLUB BBQ free email forwarding service completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 54.4% of the sample were male, 29.8% in their twenties, 33.8% in their thirties, and 36.4% in their forties.
On the other hand, given the lack of holidays, or at least the combination of both a reluctance to take and to grant holidays in Japan, I can understand some of the lack of enthusiasm for honeymoons. Although most of the married people I know did take honeymoons, a number of them took them a few weeks to a few months after the ceremony.
Should couples go on honeymoon?
Research results
Q1: Are you currently married? (Sample size=450)
| |
All |
Male N=245 |
Female N=205 |
| Not married (to SQ1) |
57.1% |
57.6% |
56.6% |
| Married (to SQ3) |
42.9% |
42.4% |
43.4% |
Q1SQ1: If you were to marry, and if you had the time and money, would you want to go on a honeymoon? (Sample size=257)
| |
All |
Male N=141 |
Female N=116 |
| Definitely (to SQ2) |
32.3% |
36.9% |
26.7% |
| Perhaps (to SQ2) |
51.0% |
46.1% |
56.9% |
| Perhaps not (to end of survey) |
8.2% |
8.5% |
7.8% |
| Not at all (to end of survey) |
8.6% |
8.5% |
8.6% |
Q1SQ2: Why would you most want to go on a honeymoon? (Sample size=214)
| |
All |
Male N=117 |
Female N=97 |
| To make memories |
49.1% |
50.4% |
47.4% |
| To enjoy the holiday itself |
30.4% |
23.9% |
38.1% |
| To get to know my spouse better |
10.7% |
14.5% |
6.2% |
| To underline the fact that we married |
3.7% |
4.3% |
3.1% |
| To realise what it is to be married |
3.3% |
3.4% |
3.1% |
| Just because |
0.5% |
0.0% |
1.0% |
| Other |
2.3% |
3.4% |
1.0% |
The following questions were for married people only.
Q1SQ3: Did you go on a honeymoon? (Sample size=193)
Q1SQ4: What was the main reason why you went on a honeymoon? (Sample size=136)
| |
All |
Male N=69 |
Female N=67 |
| To make memories |
50.7% |
60.9% |
40.3% |
| To enjoy the holiday itself |
28.7% |
21.7% |
35.8% |
| Just because |
8.1% |
7.2% |
9.0% |
| To get to know my spouse better |
5.1% |
1.4% |
9.0% |
| To realise what it is to be married |
3.7% |
2.9% |
4.5% |
| To underline the fact that we married |
2.9% |
4.3% |
1.5% |
| Other |
0.7% |
1.4% |
0.0% |
Q1SQ5: If they have the time and money, should future couples go on honeymoon? (Sample size=193)
| |
All |
Male N=104 |
Female N=89 |
| Definitely should |
45.6% |
44.2% |
47.2% |
| If possible they should |
34.7% |
34.6% |
34.8% |
| They should not |
19.7% |
21.2% |
18.0% |
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Hmmm… Maybe they’re thinking about their current financial situations, how exceedingly expensive weddings are in Japan, and becoming doubtful. (I mean, weddings in North America are ridiculously expensive, but there seems to be more flexibility to have a small/inexpensive/alternative wedding and still have it be socially acceptable.)
Legally becoming married and having a ceremony are different events here. Sometimes people have the ceremony months after their actual marriage, sometimes they have no ceremony at all. Having a honeymoon when you’ve perhaps already been married for half a year may just not feel very important anymore.
When we married we had no ceremony, and while we had a honeymoon of sorts, it was a one-week trip to Hokkaido that we’d already planned to do anyhow. We just relabelled it “honeyomoon” instead of “vacation” to stop people asking about why we didn’t have one. ^_^
It’s really expensive and really hard to put together the time for both people to get time off work at the same time (~__~).
Also, I agree with Clarissa and Janne.
Honeymoon’s are once in your lifetime!
Enjoy life you only got one! Live it well, live it to the fullest!
Sharing it between husband and wife is very crucial, first as married couple trip!
We work so god forsaken hard for it daily! Opportunities like this just don’t come around very often, don’t throw it away it’s literally a once in a lifetime chance!
I know it’s expensive, that’s why you save money and manage it right! Earn the money, save up, and you’ll be thankful later!
Honeymoon is a definite must do, otherwise you are wasting the life I think Newlyweds deserves this for sure period! Once you and your wife are
over 60 those chances to go on a honeymoon don’t happen much often…you are young, live life, be happy, be grateful for all that you got and enjoy it please!
Mottainai yo!
Honeymoon’s are supposed to be the biggest once in a lifetme celebration of a hopefully lifetime relationship, love, etc and big time congratulations as husband and wife! Before going out together into the big world and reality out there first have fun, you have nothing to lose or regret!
I’ve been married for 8 years now. It is still our honeymoon.