Summer quarrels with your partner
AdvertisementWith a longer and hotter summer than usual in Japan, tempers inevitably fray, so goo Ranking took a look at what tends to be the cause of lovers’ tiffs in summer, for both men and women. However, looking at the answers there seems to be no pattern to which side starts the argument.
Demographics
Over the 21st and 22nd of July 2010 1,159 members of the goo Research online monitor group completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 63.4% of the sample were female, 12.4% in their teens, 21.1% in their twenties, 28.3% in their thirties, 23.6% in their forties, 8.2% in their fifties, and 6.4% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample.
What most irritates me in summer (although it hasn’t started an argument, yet…) is my wife’s constant utterances of “it’s hot!” roughly every two minutes, even when inside air-conditioned facilities. Her cooler settings at bed time are also far too low, but I just snuggle up a bit more…
Ranking result
Q: What tends to be the cause of arguments with your partner during the summer? (Sample size=424 735, male)
Rank Score 1 Air conditioning temperature setting at bedtime 100 2 Getting annoyed at the crowds at fireworks displays 79.6 3 Her saying “It’s hot!” too often 75.9 4 Ogling at the opposite sex at the beach, pool 64.8 5= On a drive, whether to switch on the air conditioner or open a window 51.9 5= Getting clingy even though it’s hot 51.9 5= Not wanting to go out on a date together because it’s hot 51.9 8 Clothes that show too much skin 44.4 9 Eating all the ice cream in the freezer 40.7 10 Her not wanting to hold hands because it’s too hot 38.9 11 Saying that each other’s sweat smells 35.2 12 Drinking the fridge dry 33.3 13 Her swimsuit being too skimpy 29.6 14 Behaviour while watching live baseball on television 27.8 15 Her taking far too long to change into her yukata, swimsuit, etc 24.1 16= Saying that the blisters from wearing sandals, beach sandals hurt 20.4 16= Wandering about the house in underwear because it’s too hot 20.4 18 Her being too scared of a haunted house attraction 14.8 19= Setting the shower, bath tub temperature too high 13.0 19= Wearing beach sandals even though it’s not a beach date 13.0 Q: What tends to be the cause of arguments with your partner during the summer? (Sample size=735, female)
Rank Score 1 Getting annoyed at the crowds at fireworks displays 100 2 Air conditioning temperature setting at bedtime 91.5 3 Not wanting to go out on a date together because it’s hot 88.6 4 Ogling at the opposite sex at the beach, pool 72.7 5 Eating all the ice cream in the freezer 71.0 6 Him saying “It’s hot!” too often 67.0 7 Getting clingy even though it’s hot 59.7 8 Drinking the fridge dry 47.2 9 Him not wanting to hold hands because it’s too hot 42.6 10 Clothes that show too much skin 36.9 11 Saying that each other’s sweat smells 30.7 12 On a drive, whether to switch on the air conditioner or open a window 26.1 13 Behaviour while watching live baseball on television 25.0 14= Saying that the blisters from wearing sandals, beach sandals hurt 19.9 14= Him making somen (cold rice noodles) every day 19.9 14= Not coming out of the shade to avoid tanning at the beach, pool 19.9 17 Wandering about the house in underwear because it’s too hot 18.8 18 His swimsuit being too skimpy 14.2 19 Me taking far too long to change into my yukata, swimsuit, etc 13.6 20 Leaving the other person to do summer homework and going out to play 11.4