Why do Japanese people marry?
Advertisementgoo Ranking recently took a look at a question that seems simple at first glace, why did you decide to marry, for both men deciding and women deciding.
Demographics
Between the 23rd and 26th of April 2010 1,187 members of the goo Research online monitor group completed a private internet-base questionnaire. 61.4% of the sample were female, 10.1% in their teens, 17.4% in their twenties, 30.9% in their thirties, 24.9% in their forties, 10.1% in their fifties, and 6.5% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample. Only the men in the sample answered this question.
As a cultural note, “Because he’d/she’d decided to change jobs” implies more a posting within the company to a differnt town rather than actually changing employers, and more often than not these postings are effectively mandatory and at short notice.
As another cultural note, given the number of shotgun weddings in the country I’m surprised that that reason was so low in the ranking here!
Ranking result
Q: What was the deciding reason for getting married? (Sample size=458, male)
Rank Score 1 Because I thought I wanted to live together 100 2 Because I thought I needed her 47.1 3 Because I was of the age when people like me get married 46.3 4 Because I thought if I let her go I’d regret it for the rest of my life 26.4 5= Because I thought I could protect her 24.0 5= Because I thought she needed me 24.0 7 Because we’d been going out for so long I thought it was about time 19.0 8 Because I thought I wanted to make my parents happy 17.4 9 Because she was of the marrying age 10.7 10 Because she was pregnant 9.9 11= Because she was urging me to marry 7.4 11= Because I got confident in my job 7.4 13= Because we wanted children 6.6 13= Because I’d saved up money 6.6 15 Because my salary increased 5.0 16 Because my parents liked her 4.1 17= Because her parents were concerned 0.8 17= Because I’d decided to switch jobs 0.8 17= Because my salary decreased 0.8 17= Because she talked about breaking up 0.8 Q: What was the deciding reason for getting married? (Sample size=726, female)
Rank Score 1 Because I thought I wanted to live together 100 2 Because I thought I needed him 58.8 3 Because I was of the age when people like me get married 56.9 4 Because I thought I wanted to make my parents happy 27.8 5 Because we’d been going out for so long I thought it was about time 27.5 6= Because I thought if I let him go I’d regret it for the rest of my life 26.7 6= Because I thought he needed me 26.7 8 Because I was pregnant 18.4 9 Because we wanted children 12.5 10 Because he was urging me to marry 7.5 11 Because I thought I could protect him 7.1 12 Because he was of the marrying age 5.9 13 Because he’d decided to switch jobs 5.5 14 Because my parents liked him 4.3 15 Because I’d saved up money 2.4 16 Because my salary decreased 1.6 17 Because I got confident in my job 1.2 18 Because his parents were concerned 0.8 19= Because I’d decided to switch jobs 0.4 19= Because my salary increased 0.4