Graduation day highs and lows in Japan
AdvertisementWith graduation season just finished in Japan, here’s a look with goo Ranking at people’s memories, both the sad ones for men and women and the happy ones for men and women.
Demographics
Over the 22nd and 23rd of February 2010 1,123 members of the goo Research monitor group completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 58.6% of the sample were female, 9.6% in their teens, 22.2% in their twenties, 32.1% in their thirties, 24.9% in their forties, 7.5% in their fifties, and 3.8% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample.
Although the URL uses “happy” and most of the Q2 incidents seem happy to me, the actual question used “bitter-sweet”, for a reason I’m not really to sure about!
I don’t really remember anything in particular about my university graduation day, but looking at the list of event below I think they are more talking about school graduation, I think. We didn’t have any of that graduation nonsense when I was in school – the last day of school on the final year was pretty much like the last day every other year.
Research results
Q1: What regrets do you have about your graduation day? (Sample size=465, male)
Rank Score 1 I wasn’t really moved 100 2 No-one asked me for my second-top button 54.8 3 I got dumped on my graduation day 12.0 4 I couldn’t say thanks to everyone properly 10.8 5 I couldn’t attend due to illness, injury, etc 10.2 6= A girl I fancied refused to have her photo taken with me 7.8 6= When my name was read out at the ceremony I replied 7.8 8= I didn’t get the second-top button from a girl I fancied 7.2 8= When they called out “Non-graduates dismissed!” I stood up 7.2 10 They got my name wrong at the graduation ceremony 5.4 Q1: What regrets do you have about your graduation day? (Sample size=658, female)
Rank Score 1 I wasn’t really moved 100 2 I didn’t get the second-top button from a guy I fancied 31.0 3 I cried so much snot ran out of my nose 17.3 4 I got dumped on my graduation day 10.2 5 No-one asked me for my second-top button 9.6 6 I had hayfever and couldn’t stop sneezing, my runny nose 9.6 7 They got my name wrong at the graduation ceremony 9.1 7= I couldn’t attend due to illness, injury, etc 9.1 9 When my name was read out at the ceremony I replied 8.1 10 I was late 7.1 Q2: What bitter-sweet memories do you have of your graduation day? (Sample size=465, male)
Rank Score 1 Everyone wrote comments in my graduation album 100 2 I got my photo taken with a girl I fancied 75.6 3 After the ceremony finished I hung around the school for a long time 74.4 4 A junior from a club I participated in wrote a comment in my graduation album 65.4 5= A junior declared her love for me 60.3 5= After the ceremony finished there was a party in a classroom 60.3 7= I cried all the way through the ceremony 56.4 7= Everybody wrote a message on the class blackboard 56.4 9= I declared my love for someone I always fancied 52.6 9= We buried a time capsule 52.6 11 Someone I always fancied declared her love for me 50.0 12 Our teacher cried more than the pupils 48.7 13 I wrote a message to my teacher in my graduation album 41.0 14 I got the second-top button from someone I fancied 26.9 15 I got the second-top button from someone and got all weepy 23.1 16 I cried when our teacher read us a message 19.2 17 I cried when an always-strict guidance counselor teacher read us a message 17.9 18= I cried while reading a message to club juniors 16.7 18= I cried when club juniors read us a message 16.7 18= I sent a present to my teacher 16.7 Q2: What bitter-sweet memories do you have of your graduation day? (Sample size=658, female)
Rank Score 1 I cried all the way through the ceremony 100 2 I got the second-top button from someone I fancied 99.4 3 Everyone wrote comments in my graduation album 92.1 4 I got my photo taken with a guy I fancied 79.7 5 After the ceremony finished I hung around the school for a long time 57.1 6 After the ceremony finished there was a party in a classroom 51.4 7 A junior from a club I participated in wrote a comment in my graduation album 48.0 8 Our teacher cried more than the pupils 39.5 9 I declared my love for someone I always fancied 39.0 10 I cried when our teacher read us a message 36.2 11 We buried a time capsule 35.6 12 Everybody wrote a message on the class blackboard 35.0 13 I sent a present to my teacher 27.7 14 I wrote a message to my teacher in my graduation album 27.1 15 I got my photo taken with a teacher I liked 24.9 16 I got the second-top button from someone I didn’t expect 18.1 17= Someone I always fancied declared his love for me 17.5 17= I cried when an always-strict guidance counselor teacher read us a message 17.5 19 I cried when club juniors read us a message 16.9 20 A junior declared his love for me 11.3
I didn’t understand about the second button stuff, so I checked around. Found this site with some info – http://homepage2.nifty.com/osiete/s504.htm. If I translate it right, it sounds like the second button is closest to our heart, so that is the one that goes to someone you have a crush on/has a crush on you. This seem right?
Thanks PeterD – I meant to add a comment to that effect, but I forgot. That sounds about right to me.