How to have a good boys’ (or girls’) night out in Japan
AdvertisementI’ve never actually been on many boys’ nights out in Japan, mostly because I feel lonely if I don’t bring the wife along, so I cannot really relate to this ranking survey from goo Ranking about what people pay attention to regarding girls’ nights out and boy’s nights out.
Demographics
Between the 23rd and 25th of March 2009 1,043 members of the goo Research monitor group completed a private online questionnaire. 52.2% of the sample were male, 7.8% in their teens, 17.1% in their twenties, 28.2% in their thirties, 24.8% in their forties, 11.4% in their fifties, and 10.7% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample.
Sorry, it’s a bit late at night and I cannot find a nice picture to illustrate this one!
Ranking result
Q: What do you take into consideration for a boys’ night out? (Sample size=544, male)
Rank Score 1 Not to talk about salary 100 2 Not to talk about how much savings one has 85.3 3 Not to whinge 76.5 4 Selecting who will come along 73.5 5 Not to speak fondly about one’s love life 70.6 6= Not to talk about work 61.8 6= Not to boast about one’s girlfriend, other person close to one 61.8 8= Seed the conversation with topics others want to talk about 41.2 8= Not to inadvertantly steer the conversation towards marriage 41.2 10 Not to talk exclusively about one’s children 35.3 11 To wear a currently in vogue fashion item 23.5 12= To talk about work 20.6 12= Selecting the venue 20.6 14= To study up on the economy, politics, other latest news 17.6 14= Not to wear the same clothes as last time 17.6 14= Not to talk about one’s weight 17.6 17 To have a three cheers at the end 14.7 18 To put more effort into coordinating one’s look than for a date 8.8 19= Not to wear last year’s fashion 2.9 19= To give a small present 2.9 Q: What do you take into consideration for a girls’ night out? (Sample size=499, female)
Rank Score 1= Not to wear the same clothes as last time 100 1= To wear a currently in vogue fashion item 100 3 To put more effort into coordinating one’s look than for a date 80.0 4 Selecting the venue 75.7 5 Not to boast about one’s boyfriend, other person close to one 71.4 6 Seed the conversation with topics others want to talk about 70.0 7 Selecting who will come along 67.1 8 Not to speak fondly about one’s love life 65.7 9 Not to talk exclusively about one’s children 57.1 10 Not to talk about how much savings one has 42.9 11 Not to talk about salary 35.7 12 Not to whinge 34.3 13= To have a three cheers at the end 30.0 13= Not to inadvertantly steer the conversation towards marriage 30.0 15 To wear make-up that appeals to women 27.1 16 Not to talk about one’s weight 22.9 17 Not to talk about work 15.7 18= Not to wear last year’s fashion 10.0 18= To check out beauty information beforehand 10.0 20 To give a small present 5.7
The fact that money comes up in everyday conversation was a pretty big culture shock coming here; it’s definitely a faux pas in a lot of the circles I run in back in the states.