Becoming an It Girl or an It Boy in Japan
AdvertisementAnother difficult word to translate into English is モテる, moteru. The dictionary lists translations such as “to be well-liked” and “to be welcomed”, but I feel they don’t really capture the full spirit of the term. There’s also probably a good modern-day slang equivalent of being an It Girl (or Boy), being able to turn guys’ heads and be the envy of your female friends, but I haven’t a clue what it might be. The survey itself uses just “popular” in the URL, so I’ll stick with just that as I introduce this one from goo Ranking into what people want to apply themselves to this year in order to become popular, for both men and women.
Demographics
Between the 21st and 23rd of November 2008 1,083 members of the goo Research monitor group completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 50.4% of the sample were female, 9.0% in their teens, 15.7% in their twenties, 29.1% in their thirties, 25.5% in their forties, 11.3% in their fifties, and 9.4% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample.
I suspect the “increasing the number of popular hobbies I have” answer refers to stopping being such of an otaku/nerd/anorak!
Even some men want whiter skin, but curiously getting one’s teeth fixed appears nowhere.
For me, it would have to be stopping being such an anti-social git! Interestingly, being more communicative doesn’t come up as a direct answer, and it’s different from being a good listener or talker.
Ranking result
Q: In order to be more popular with females, what do you want to apply yourself to this year? (Sample size=537, men)
Rank Score 1 Being a good listener 100 2 Being a good talker 98.9 3 Losing weight 91.0 4 Making investments 85.4 5 気配り上手 Being considerate 77.5 6= Trying to always have a happy face 46.1 6= Keeping up with the latest fashions 46.1 8 Learning some manners 39.3 9 Getting skilled at cooking 33.7 10 Increasing the number of popular hobbies I have 32.6 11 Changing jobs 29.2 12= Keeping my room tidy 28.1 12= Changing my hairstyle 28.1 14 Getting rid of excess hair 24.7 15 Polishing up my email techniques 23.6 16 Increasing the number of restaurants I know 21.3 17 Buying, upgrading my car 20.2 18 Moving house 7.9 19 Getting a driving licence 6.7 20 Whitening my skin 4.5 Q: In order to be more popular with males, what do you want to apply yourself to this year? (Sample size=546, women)
Rank Score 1= Being a good listener 100 1= Losing weight 100 3 気配り上手 Being considerate 84.9 4 Trying to always have a happy face 75.9 5 Studying make-up techniques 69.9 6 Getting skilled at cooking 67.5 7 Being a good talker 65.7 8 Keeping my room tidy 62.7 9 Whitening my skin 57.8 10 Keeping up with the latest fashions 55.4 11 Changing my hairstyle 54.2 12 Learning some manners 42.8 13 Getting rid of excess hair 41.0 14 Making investments 35.5 15 Polishing up my email techniques 11.4 16 Changing jobs 9.6 17 Increasing the number of restaurants I know 8.4 18 Increasing the number of popular hobbies I have 7.2 19 Moving house 5.4 20 Buying, upgrading my car 4.8