How to get on better with your Japanese cow-orkers
AdvertisementJust in case you, like me, cannot relate to many of the people in your office, here’s some tips from goo Ranking, where they asked members of the goo Research monitor panel on how to improve relations with your workmates.
Demographics
Bewteen the 22nd and 25th of January 2008 1,126 members of the goo Research monitor panel completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 54.4% of the sample was female, 3.6% in their teens, 15.8% in their twenties, 35.1% in their thirties, 27.3% in their forties, 11.0% in their fifties, and 7.3% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample.
For me, 1 is difficult as there is the issue of not having a common background, and sometimes trying to communicate is a strain; 2 is a non-starter as there aer few veggie options at our staff canteen, and all of them have the manners of peasants – slurping is the Japanese way, granted, but speaking with your mouth full and shovelling food into your gob is just too much for me to cope with; for 3, my wife is far better company and all they do is talk about work or colleagues that I don’t know; 4, baby stories bore me; 5 I try to do; and for 6 I don’t understand their complaints as we have mutually alien concepts of what work really is. 7 is probably a bad translation…
Oh, and if you’re wondering about the spelling in the headline…
Ranking results
Q: What is the best way to improve relations with your workmates? (Sample size=1,126)
Rank Score 1 Talk to them frequently 100 2 Go to lunch together 69.6 3 Go out drinking with them 65.4 4 Share private life topics (hobbies, family, etc) 63.7 5 Praise your co-workers 60.7 6 Listen to their complaints 58.8 7 Work as part of the same team 55.1 8 Ask after people who are off sick 40.5 9 Pass them souvenirs from business trips, holidays 36.9 10 Hand out sweeties 26.6