Making a move, Japanese style

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Here’s this week’s Silly Sunday survey. This time it was goo Ranking looking at aspects of expressing interest, or detecting if interest was being expressed. There was what men think is the most effective way to go for the kill and what women think is the most effective way to go for the kill; then what women’s actions men think indicates they may have a chance and what men’s actions women think indicates they may have a chance. I hope you get the idea, but if not, just read on and all may become clearer! The surveys were conducted between the 25th and 27th of September 2007.

Ranking results

Q1: What do you think is an effective action for going for the kill with a woman you’re interested in?

Rank Action Score
1 Plan a time to meet her next 100
2 Reply to her emails quickly 98.3
3 Invite her to a private, non-work matter 85.9
4 Praise her 80.8
5 Get her phone number or email address 72.3
6 Give her a birthday present 68.4
7 Ask how she’s feeling 58.2
8 Frequently email her 49.7
9 Take along presents received from her when meeting 48.6
10 Follow her with eyes, meet her gaze frequently 42.9
11 Ask what she’s doing at the weekend 39.0
12 Often laugh at her jokes 37.3
13 Act cool around her 33.9
14 Be sure to sit beside her in the pub 32.8
15 Invite her to your house 31.6
16 Ask what sort of clothes, appearance, character, etc she likes 31.6
17 Lightly touch her face, shoulders, etc 30.5
18 Call her often 29.4
19 Call her by her first name 28.8
20 If eyes meet, gaze into her eyes 27.1

Q2: What do you think is an effective action for going for the kill with a man you’re interested in?

Rank Action Score
1 Reply to his emails quickly 100
2 Often laugh at his jokes 91.1
3 Praise him 81.1
4 Plan a time to meet him next 73.3
5 Ask how he’s feeling 72.8
6 Take along presents received from him when meeting 72.2
7 Invite him to a private, non-work matter 61.1
8 Get his phone number or email address 60.6
9 Lightly touch his face, shoulders, etc 60.0
10 Frequently email him 57.2
11 Give him a birthday present 57.2
12 Follow him with eyes, meet her gaze frequently 56.7
13 Act cool around him 46.7
14 Be sure to sit beside him in the pub 40.6
15 Ask what sort of clothes, appearance, character, etc he likes 40.0
16 Don’t appear nervous with him 33.3
17 Incite him by sending a mobile phone email with just “?” 31.7
18 Emphasize I don’t have a boyfriend 29.4
19 Send mobile phone email with lots of emoji 27.8
20 If eyes meet, gaze into his eyes 26.1

Q3: What woman’s actions make you think you may be in with a chance?

Rank Action Score
1 She invites me to her house 100
2 She asks when to meet next 92.6
3 She invites me to a private, non-work matter 85.3
4 She soon replies to my emails 76.0
5 Our gazes often meet 72.4
6 She doesn’t seem to mind me lightly touching her 68.7
7 She comes to sit beside me in the pub, etc 66.4
8 She often lightly touches my face, shoulders, etc 64.1
9 She frequently sends me mail 64.1
10 She gives me a birthday present 59.4
11 She calls frequently 59.0
12 She asks what I’m doing at the weekend 56.2
13 She asks for my telephone number, email address 47.0
14 She wears stuff I gave her 45.6
15 She calls me by my first name 41.0
16 She asks how I’m feeling 37.3
17 She often laughs at my jokes 36.4
18 She emphasizes that she doesn’t have a boyfriend 35.9
19 She asks what type of woman I like 34.1
20 She praises me 32.7

Q4: What man’s actions make you think you may be in with a chance?

Rank Action Score
1 He invites me to a private, non-work matter 100
2 He asks when to meet next 86.5
3 He frequently sends me mail 85.8
4 He soon replies to my emails 81.2
5 Our gazes often meet 75.4
6 He calls frequently 73.1
7 He comes to sit beside me in the pub, etc 70.8
8 He asks for my telephone number, email address 63.1
9 He gives me a birthday present 62.3
10 He asks what I’m doing at the weekend 61.2
11 He often lightly touches my face, shoulders, etc 52.3
12 He invites me to her house 51.9
13 He praises me 50.4
14 He asks how I’m feeling 43.5
15 He wears stuff I gave him 41.9
16 He calls me by my first name 39.6
17 He often laughs at my jokes 35.0
18 He doesn’t seem to mind me lightly touching him 34.6
19 He asks what type of man I like 32.3
20 He emphasizes that he doesn’t have a girlfriend 31.2
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