What Japanese want to and wish they had done by thirty

Here’s another fun pair of ranking surveys - this time it’s a look at what the under thirties want to do before they reach thirty and what the over thirties wish they had done before they were thirty. The fieldwork was carried out between the 20th and 24th of July 2007.

For me, the big thing I wished I’d done by thirty was worked abroad; I did get an opportunity to go to work in Paris for at least six months when I was about 27 or so, but I thought of too many excuses as to why I shouldn’t or couldn’t take up the offer. Regretting turning that down was one of the reasons I jumped at the chance of coming to Japan, in fact. Finding a local was also something I suppose I would have liked to have done, but I’d probably have turned into a horrendous alcoholic had I managed!

Ranking results

Q: What do you want to do before you reach thirty?

Rank Goal Score
1 Save money 100
2 Go on a long holiday 56.7
3 Fall seriously in love 56.1
4 Get married 56.1
5 Get qualifications 51.9
6 Increase number of same-sex friends 50.3
7 Build up body strength 48.7
8 Become good mannered 47.1
9 Go on a solo trip 44.9
10 Show filial piety 44.9
11 Put effort into housework 44.4
12 Increase number of opposite-sex friends 43.9
13 Wise up regarding money, insurance 38.5
14 Be able to use a foreign language 38.0
15 Live on my own 32.6
16 Make a life plan 32.1
17 Find a hobby I can really get into 31.6
18 Find a regular pub, etc, that I can go to even on my own 26.7
19 Have children 26.2
20 Lose weight 25.7
21 Get into the habit of exercising 20.9
22 Find a role model 19.3
23 Find my motto 19.3
24 Study overseas 17.6
25 Start investments in shares, trusts, etc 15.5
26 Buy a flat, house 15.5
27 Attend university, business school 15.0
28 Switch jobs 11.2
29 Break into the entertainment world 7.5
30 Start my own business 7.5

Q: What do you wish you had done before you reached thirty?

Rank Goal Score
1 Save money 100
2 Go on a long holiday 67.3
3 Get qualifications 62.1
4 Fall seriously in love 61.1
5 Get married 60.2
6 Be able to use a foreign language 52.4
7 Go on a solo trip 40.6
8 Build up body strength 38.9
9 Increase number of same-sex friends 37.9
10 Go on a trip with parents 37.9
11 Increase number of opposite-sex friends 35.0
12 Become good mannered 33.7
13 Wise up regarding money, insurance 32.3
14 Put effort into housework 32.1
15 Live on my own 31.5
16 Study overseas 29.8
17 Find a hobby I can really get into 28.8
18 Have children 27.5
19 Make a life plan 24.8
20 Lose weight 21.3
21 Get into the habit of exercising 20.9
22 Start investments in shares, trusts, etc 20.9
23 Find a regular pub, etc, that I can go to even on my own 20.7
24 Find a role model 17.4
25 Buy a flat, house 16.8
26 Find my motto 14.5
27 Attend university, business school 13.0
28 Start my own business 10.6
29 Switch jobs 9.7
30 Go on a working holiday 8.7

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  • 2 Comments »

    1. Michael Rupp said,

      September 26, 2007 @ 19:17

      Hey there! Love the site. I do have a correction however..
      Number ten should be translated something like ‘become a good son or daughter to my parents’ literally ’show filial piety’.
      Nothing to do with going on trips there. Unless you give them an all paid vacation to Hawaii perhaps (笑)
      親孝行 the 行 in the phrase doesn’t mean to go, but to ‘enact’ like in 行う okonau.
      Cheers and keep up the great work!

    2. Ken Y-N said,

      September 26, 2007 @ 22:10

      Thanks for pointing that out! I’m sure I’ve made that mistake before and I’ll make it again!

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