Japanese women dream of the USA

representitives of countries Japanese want to marry intoDIMSDRIVE performed internet-based research involving 5,274 people in September of last year to find out which country’s citizens would people most want to marry. It is not stated whether or not the people interviewed were single or not.

The Asia versus the West split is quite noticeable in the men, but really striking amongst the women. I previously translated statistics regarding international marriages in Japan that shows that the ideals being expressed here do not seem to be realised.

On a slight tangent, I watched the last episode of an NHK English learning program which features an English-speaking Western blonde angel that prods a clueless office worker along the path to success at her job getting a date with her transferred from New York colleague, the ideal tall, muscular, tanned, well-coiffured white executive. The angel’s job was done because the glaikit Misaki finally pulled her man.

Q: Other than Japanese, which country’s people do you think would be good to have as a partner (husband or wife)? (Sample size=5,274, free answer)

Rank   Votes
1 USA 1,144
2 Korea 505
3 UK 442
4 Italy 370
5 France 344
6 Australia 218
7 Germany 203
8 China 197
9 Canada 150
10 Russia 120

Q: Other than Japanese, which country’s people do you think would be good to have as a partner (husband or wife)? (By sex, free answer)

Rank Male
N=2,468
Votes Rank Female
N=2,806
Votes
1 USA 368 1 USA 776
2 Korea 297 2 UK 347
3 China 174 3 Italy 278
4 France 134 4 France 210
5 Russia 117 5 Korea 208
6 Thailand 99 6 Australia 145
7 UK 95 7 Germany 131
8 Italy 92 8 Canada 99
9= Taiwan 73 9 Switzerland 47
9= Australia 73 10 Spain 34

First, looking at the East-West split - or more accurately, perhaps, the caucasian-Asian split (I’m not aware of any black Western role-models in Japan) we see that for men, 36% of the total votes were for Western wives versus 26% for Asian women, favouring the West (I’m including Russia, with Maria Sharapova as the popular image of the country) by just over a third. However for women there is a marked difference; about 74% in total choose the West (over 40% for the USA alone) versus a mere 7.4% for the East, a massive ten to one vote for Europe and the USA.

Next, looking at the detailed age breakdown, it’s only in the teenage girls group that the USA fails to top the charts, losing out to France and Korea, and equal with the UK. For men in their twenties, American women are preferred over the second-placed Korean women by almost 60%, and the Chinese are back in fifth, gaining just over a third of the number of votes of the USA. However, the older men get, the stronger the charms of the Asian neighbours become, with the gap at its smallest being just a mere three votes. Similarly, for men in their forties and over, Chinese women cut the gap from a third to about a half of the USA score.

For women, as they get older (ignoring the over sixty bracket which has a very small sample size, so may be rather inaccurate) the attraction to American men only get stronger; in their twenties, Americans get just under a quarter of the vote, but by their fifties, it surpasses three in ten. Despite the charms of the disturbingly Harry Potter-like Bae Yong Joon Korean men do not seem to be particularly favoured by the middle-aged demographic.

These two main trends noted above are perhaps reflections on Japanese society as much as on foreign stereotypes. The younger men hold images of themselves as charming the sophisticated Western woman, but as they age (and visit dodgy hostess bars…) they come to realise that perhaps only Asian women could accept their typical Japanese behaviour. For women, after having been around Japanese men for many, many years, they too may come to realise that the Western stereotypes of politeness and chivalry are the only things that could satisty them in marriage.

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    1. The Owner said,

      September 4, 2006 @ 13:20

      Fuck that shit man, I’m from Canada and they wouldn’t see the difference between me and an American if i didn’t say it seriously. That’s a gay poll.

    2. Jane said,

      September 9, 2006 @ 05:06

      I am a Japanese woman. No one is mentioning the fact that we asian women really like black men.
      They are dearing, hot and sexy and they have really great bodies. Not skinny like asian men. They are also very proud and strong of mind.
      Lots of my friends love black men.

    3. Shawn said,

      September 10, 2006 @ 15:33

      I’m an American. At times I can say I’m proud to be one and other times not so proud. According to some recent study there is a rise in obesity. There is a lot I could say about how some things that are said are correct or how something are wrong, but to continue the topic is unfruitful course of action. I am only a five-foot six-inch 108 pound American. Anyone who wants to bother with the anorexic or bulimic thing doesn’t bother. I eat lots and often out eat my friends. I often enjoy pastas, breads, stir-fry with white rice, nearly anything with potatoes, nearly all meats but pork is not a favorite. I have learned more than most people by age 26. I can cook, bake, fry, make good BBQ, do cement work, drywall, drive cars /trucks, electronics, and even some heavy equipment, I’ve been train in the use pistols/ shotguns/ black powder “like other gun-touting people”, but it was so I could teach safety, responsibility, and hunting laws for game hunting, for example “birds, deer, turkey “. I am working to pay for college and learning computer programming, and computer art in order to eventually earn a 4-year degree. I do not come from a rich family so paying for college is my responsibility. I have never said that I understand all other cultures or countries nor am I saying anyone is better than anyone else. But I try to understand others, because when people do not bother to listen to others that are different then misunderstandings and misconceptions often occur. People can be admired for many different reasons. I find a great many things in Japan interesting and trying to learn about them. One thing I admire is their talent or great quality in everything they do. Correct me if I’m wrong, but it is their “atarimae no hinshitsu“? I have more recently stopped talking about religion as well as politics because those two topics can turn friends into enemies. I don’t fight with people, and if it comes to self-defense to protect a loved one or myself in a bad situation then I will.
      I would like to consider myself respectable and talented but there are still many things I don’t know. If anyone has some questions and would like my opinion then feel free to ask. But for a Japanese poll I would like to hear from Japanese.
      My only question is..
      What makes Americans attractive to Japanese? Is it simply they are from a different background. I would like to hear more from people like Jane (September 9, 2006). Proud, and strong of mind?

    4. AMERICA!!!! F_YEAH! said,

      September 14, 2006 @ 15:53

      That Europeans statements were pretty harsh. You can’t just generalize. If I was in Japan and some super hot Japanese chick came up to me and asked “Are you American” I’d be like “Hell yeah!” and then she would say “good” and then we wouldn’t say much outside of that cause, well, I don’t know much Japanese and her english wouldn’t be that great and all that jaberwalky.

      But then, we’d take a walk in the park and she would show me some places and crap and then we’d go dance or something, play like DDR and or some s. All that good stuff. It’d be awesome. But that’s cause I’m American and the awesomeness would be amplified. Then she’d be all “Can you take me back to US or A?” in some wierd Russian Accent and I’d be like “Heck Yes Girl!”

      We’d get married, she’d teach me Japanese, I’d teach her English alongside Spanish cause she’d need it cause of all them Mexicans. Then I’d make her a cake and everything would be hunky doory. Don’t take anything I said to seriously except for that Euro-Trash statement.

      Dude, I just want a hot asian girlfriend.

    5. anna said,

      September 14, 2006 @ 18:48

      i’m good looking girl easy going some one so loving faithfuli’m good looking girl easy going some one so loving faithfuli’m good looking girl easy going some one so loving faithfuli’m good looking girl easy going some one so loving faithfuli’m good looking girl easy going some one so loving faithful

    6. Shawn said,

      September 15, 2006 @ 16:04

      If I could go over to Japan for 1 year, see the festivals, learn the customs, learn more of the language, and work to help pay the bills then I’d love the change to go. My only problems are money with my schooling right now and the fact I know very little about the language. I could not even speak simple phrases. So I’m afraid I’d be a bother to anyone I would be with there unless they could speak English. I’m trying to learn what I can now, but I don’t have much free time between work & school. The country is beautiful, and there would be so much to learn. Well from the things I’ve read most families would not want anyone getting married to outsiders or foreigners. And anything we find common around here is not so for Japan. Things are just done differently there. Something as simple as the way of life and how we were raised is just different. I’d like to get a more in-depth understanding of life in Japan. But the one thing I would love to be a part of is the Cherry Blossom Festival. It is one of the most beautiful things I’ve seen.

    7. AmericanWhiteGuy said,

      September 21, 2006 @ 05:42

      Something tells me that “Jane” wasn’t really Asian or female. My observation of Asian females in the U.S. is that they usually prefer the company of other Asian men that they can relate to. The second highest probability is that they are with your average white guy who may or may not be good-looking which always surprised me as I’ve always thought a lot of Asian women could score a pretty decent-looking white guy if they tried. I’ve seen a few Asian women with black men as well but they seemed to be status-chasers of much the same kind as any white woman who dates a successful black guy. I’m not sure how well this model would hold up on the west coast but having lived in several places on the east coast, it remained the pretty much the same throughout.

    8. REFMan said,

      November 1, 2006 @ 14:31

      Japanese Women love korean men
      http://www.contracostatimes.com/mld/cctimes/news/15432553.htm?source=rss&channel=cctimes_news
      http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/08/30/AR2006083002985.html

    9. Ren said,

      November 19, 2006 @ 08:30

      Jane,

      I’m a black male. If you or any of your friends are interested in hanging out let me know… I love japanese women. I’ve been to Japan twice and wish I could have stayed longer both times.

    10. Andrew said,

      November 23, 2006 @ 20:45

      haha, why would japanese women go for inbred fat americans, most of which dont have a passport and have not been outside there country!!

      laughable!

      do americans know where Japan is?! yes a world exists out side america!! no japan is not in europe

    11. Oona said,

      November 26, 2006 @ 05:00

      This is sad.

      Why so much hatred? Because we allow the media to dictate “reality”. The reason you all hold so tightly to stereotypes because you have no experience with others to rely on.

      I am Cherokee/Aruban born, raised, and currently reside in New York city.
      I am fine with who I am and I love myself.
      I have amazing friends here and very loving parents; both live in Switzerland.
      I am curious about the world. I teach myself different languages. I don’t watch TV.
      I read many books, compose my own music, write poetry, and paint pictures.
      I love dancing and hula-hooping. Guns scare me. Junk food disgusts me.
      I enjoy going to pow-wows and spending time with people I’ve just met on the train or while walking around.
      I live without a roommate. I am an IT consultant. I am slim and healthy.
      I help people realize their dreams. I teach English and charge no money for it.
      I speak a little Japanese, as I am teaching myself.
      I like cats. I believe in faries and enjoy thunderstorms.

      What will become of us when there is nothing left to hate and everything else to love?
      I look forward to that day.

      It’s not world peace, but a shift in how we think of one another.
      Or would you rather kill eachother off with words and weapons?

      While you’re doing that, I’ll be dancing and having fun with my friends at a night club.

      Oh, I forgot to mention my boyfriend is Japanese.
      He is very good to me. He appreciates my independence, intelligence, love, and unique traits.
      I appreciate him as an individual, friend, lover, and life-teacher.
      We make a great team and we learn from one another. We laugh at haters.

      Hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!! *smirk*

    12. Delboy said,

      November 30, 2006 @ 23:27

      Asians or Oriental people (I’m from England so Asian means south Asian like Indian or Pakistani) have this weird inferiority complex towards white people. I think this is down to historical dominance and media brain washing. Asians, whether they be Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Thai, Pilipino or Vietnamese, have a high cultural respect for people that have conquered them. Whites have conquered Asians for many centuries and this has lead to a deep rooted Suzie Wong inferiority complex with Asian even now. As a Black person what I don’t get is why Asians have such a lack of regard for black people. I read a book by a famous Chinese writer and she stated that Chinese people sometimes refer to black people as Soya devils. No disrespect to my Oriental peeps, but it wasn’t black people that turned the Chinese into drug addicts and stole their land. It wasn’t black people that nuked the Japanese. It wasn’t black people that napalmed the Vietnamese, It wasn’t black people that divided up Korea and it isn’t black people sleeping with the kids of Thailand, so why the hate?

      I was recently in Thailand with my pals. We were in a big group of guys. Some of the people in our group were black, some were Asian and my two of my pals were white. In Bangkok the white guys got all the female attention in our group. Us black guys and Asian brothers were being completely ignored. It took me a few days realise why. Bangkok is a city in an Asian country, but you look at all the billboards, the magazines, TV and it is full of white people. There is even this Thai Sports channel that has this outrageous subliminal TV advert. Remember this is a sports channel, but every ad break has a two minute advert that shows a picture montage of famous beautiful white people like Brad Pitt, Angela Jolie, Britney Spears etc. There are no words and there is no product that is being sold. This is clear brain washing with this advert on every 10 minutes and this channel goes out across Asia telling Asians that white skin and white people are the colour to aspire too. I even went to a local pharmacy to get some toothpaste and the biggest section in the store was skin bleaching products. It was at this point I thanked god I’m black and that black people don’t have this inferiority complex towards white people. You can see that Thai women are so desperate for white babies that they don’t care what the guy looks like they will go for them if they are white. In fact the only Black people I saw on TV were on the show Cops and the film Sahara (a film were the black people are the bad guys). America’s greatest achievement behind consumerism is teaching the worlds how to dislike blacks.

      The ironic thing is that a black dude dating a Thai woman would raise more eyebrows with locals than an old fat balding white dude exploiting a stunning young Thai girl. Whether we like it or not Asian women are stereo-typed as the best female lovers and black men are stereo-typed as being the best male lovers. So it doesn’t matter where in the world you are most people think great freaky sex when they see a Black due with an Asian girl.

      It is only when you travel outside of Bangkok that you see attitudes change and that is down to far less pro-European advertising on the streets and little access to cable channels on TV. In other parts of Thailand they actually prefer black people because they feel whites act like Thailand is their country, plus black street culture is far more relevant to working class Thai people. I can only hope that this Suzie Wongism is not as bad as I saw in Thailand in other parts of Asian, but with David Beckham seen as a god in all parts of Asian and lots of Asians with dyed blond hair makes me think it is like this all over Asia.
      Oriental people have a lot to be proud of and they shouldn’t see themselves as lesser than white people. In the UK scientist have said it is official Oriental women are more likely to produce a child of high intelligence than any other race of women. They claim that people from China, Japan, Korea, Thailand and over far eastern oriental countries have the genetic body structure to produce children of high intelligence. These same scientist state males of west of African origins produce the children of greatest physical dexterity, meaning that their children will gain movement quicker, have greater reactions, hand eye coordination and plus more speed and power. These scientist, who are white in case you are cynical, claim that whites are genetically mediocre and that to create the prefect genetic human you would have to get an Oriental woman to have a child with a West African man. I guess Tiger Woods is a good example of this. I know his Dad is African American and his Mother is half white half Thai. But 97% of all American Americans originate from West Africa and Tiger is not only the most powerful golfer he is the smartest too. It is just ironic that we live in a white created society that teaches Black and Oriental people to look down on each other.

      I know a lot of Asian women don’t date black guys because that perceives them as stupid. I’m a black and I would agree with that statement when it comes to African Americans. I think ignorance really is a general American problem, but I have always had problems as a British Black male that African American culture seems to be the dominate black culture worldwide. Am I the only person in the world who feels that one of the most historically oppressed and manipulated black people in the world shouldn’t be settling the cultural agenda for more developed black societies? You think with all that money Jay-Z & 50 Cent would pay someone to help make them speak more articulately.

      Well to all the Asians that think black people are genetically predisposed to be stupid then look at Britain. The UK has the biggest West African population outside of the Africa. The UK education system is far superior to the US education system. In UK government statistics the top performing groups academically are students from Oriental and West African backgrounds. Many people claim the reason why UK West Africans are the only black group performing very well and out performing whites in school is because they were the blacks that were never slaves, so they don’t suffer from the psychological stigma that many blacks across the world face knowing they descend from slaves.

      So Black and Asian people lets have more fried chicken with fired rice. More half Nigeria half Chinese people, more Ghanaian Japanese people, more Ivorian Koreans and hope that Suzie Wong gets married to Uncle Tom and lives happily ever after.

    13. Jesi said,

      December 3, 2006 @ 09:17

      Wow. So many “opinions”. I’m a 27 yr old American female living in Japan. I’ve been here on and off for 3 years. I have lived in 3 different areas. Kansai, Kanto and Hokkaido. Generally, from I have witnessed Japanese women like foreign men. Some LOVE black men, whether they be African-Americans or from some other country. To the point of them liking guys just FOR the color of their skin. I have noticed far more Japanese females have foreign partners than Japanese males have foreign partners. I think most of this is due to the fact that Japanese men think they are inadequate to Caucasion and Black men. (Size wise) Japanese women also like how foreign men treat them. Better. Foriegn men are willing to spend time with them and talk, and aren’t afraid of saying “I love you” more than once.

      Japanese men are HOT. Not all, but many. I have yet to date or be with a foreigner in Japan. All the men I have had any interest in have been Japanese. This is unusual. Foreign girls LIKE J-boys, but rarely catch them. It was only until I came to Hokkaido that I met other females (that total being 3 besides myself) who’ve had experience with Japanese men. I take it back. I knew one female in Kansai who had a J-boy.
      Point being, Japanese like whoever gives them attention. I had to work pretty hard to get my first J-boy. Not because he didn’t like me, just because he didn’t have any experience with a foreign woman.
      Most Japanese men who have had a foreign partner/girlfriend have only had one. Whereas, Japanese women have had countless foreign partners.

      I think in general Americans are more accepting of bi-racial coupling. Despite all the racial tensity portrayed, people in the US generally do get along with other races. Europeans tend to be a bit snobbish about um, well, everything. And, I might add, most countries that were former British colonies tend to have that high-nose attitude. Not that everyone is like that, but I think Japanese tend to go for a little less hmmmph.

      Japanese women and Korean men…Korean men are portrayed as intimate and sentimental, something Japanese men rarely are. Of course they are going to like that kind of guy…whether he’s Mexican, Chinese, Korean or Italian.

      About weight. I’m probably considered slightly overweight, but no more so than you’re average flesh and bones Japanese girl (fat percentage wise). Japanese women have no muscle. Non-asian women have muscle. I have yet to see a muscular Japanese woman. I have been a member at 3 gyms here and have YET to see a woman come remotely close to my muscular build. Either they are skin and bones or just fat. And yes, Japan has fat people too. And they are getting fatter at an alarming rate.

      So there you have it. My perspective on Japan.

    14. Delboy said,

      December 3, 2006 @ 18:59

      In response to Jesi comments that American’s are most tolerant people of bi racial couples and that Europeans more snobbish to bi-racial couples is not exactly true. I hope she was not including the British in her slight against Europeans. The British put the Americans to shame when it comes to tolerance of others races and mixed raced couples. Remember in the USA for romantic comedy films if the lead actor is Black then the female lead has to be Latin or Oriental because Americans still find a white woman dating a black man weird. That is what they did for the film Hitch with Will Smith and have you wondered why on all American TV shows all interracial couple seem to be between ethnic minorities like ER and that other hospital show. The UK has the biggest mixed raced population in the world with 50% of the “Black” population having a parent of another race. Race isn’t even an issue in Britain when it comes to dating because it is so common. British white people are the weirdest in the world because they have superiority complex to every white population in the world. They think they are too good to be called European, they have long considered Americans to be stupid and inferior, but consider black people more as equals. If you were to ask the British person to come up with a list of the top 5 most respected Americans ever, most British white people would have more Africans Americans on that list than white Americans. This makes the British very unique for Europeans because in mainland Europe especially in Southern and Eastern Europe they don’t even consider black people to be even human. So the British can be very openly racist to other white nations but more tolerant to black people. Another strange quirk of the British is that this tolerance of black people is not necessary extended to Asians or South Asians. Maybe they see qualities in black people they would like for themselves, but don’t see qualities in Asians they would like for themselves. In fact a lot of the major racial problems in the UK have been between Whites & South Asian Muslims and this is down to British South Asian suicide bombers and this is leading to UK Whites to be less tolerant of all races. Put it this way if you are black in the UK you are not going to find it hard to get laid because UK white women love black guys more than another women in the world easily. Britain has 400 years of history of white women sleeping with black men and this tradition has continued today. I think lot this warm has to do with sex, but it also has to do with kids too. In Britain half white and half black people are consider to be the most beautiful. On UK TV all the commercials that use kid actors always used black or mixed raced kids. If you add to the fact that Black people in Britain are better educated and better dressed than they are in other parts of the world, this makes the UK and especially London the real melting pot that American falsely claims to be. If America is meant to be more tolerant, how many really famous white American women have you seen dating black guys? In Britain nearly every celebrity has.

    15. all of u are gaz said,

      December 5, 2006 @ 07:58

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    16. Douglas Drummin said,

      December 7, 2006 @ 06:50

      All i know is Asian women are so sexy i dont care about white black green yellow in this day and age people need to understand that this is the world we live in and who cares if your parents or her parents dont like you or him there gonna talk about you behind your back any and so is your family and vice versa if there any Asain woman out there in my area that want to have a tea and a conversation just email me by the way im black and mix with alot of things but right now asian women have such a vice grip on black men its not even funny
      p.s look at tiki barber and his brother both have asian mates i can say one thing ive never seen a ugly Blk/Asian baby never

    17. Douglas Drummin said,

      December 7, 2006 @ 06:54

      DouglasIII@tmo.blackberry.net

    18. Douglas Drummin said,

      December 7, 2006 @ 06:56

      Oh by the way alot of people dont date other races because they dont know how to talk to people some people just think you have to change to date someone that not your race thats wrong you stay the same they love you for who your are not who you pretend to be

      DouglasIII@tmo.blackberry.net

    19. Jackie Aldridge said,

      December 7, 2006 @ 07:14

      I’ve been interested in this question fpr a long time and don’t have any answers. Sometimes I think some American men like Asian women because they tend to be slimmer than American women. And then sometimes I think some men perceive of Asian women as being more docile and less likely to argue in a relationship. But then sometimes it must be that they just happen to be attracted to one particular person who is Asian. I guess I resent it when I think there is a “taking advantage” kind of relationship going on. With some men who happen to want things all their way. But at the most, it only means that my first impression with people I meet who are inter-race/culture mixed is “What is going on here”. Then, if it looks like they have a good relationship, I stop worrying about it. And if they don’t, well I avoid them. Asian men, that I meet, are generally nice guys. But I tend to be turned on by very high IQs and a certain agressive attitude(commoner in Euro & Americans). And most Asian guys I meet aren’t putting themselves out to be that type of person, especially by the time they reach middle age, so it’s rare to meet one that I want to try for. Motto for life: Don’t worry, be happy.

    20. Delboy said,

      December 8, 2006 @ 08:37

      I think there is a slight myth about asian women that does attract a lot of men wanting to have women that match this myth. Asian women are stereo-typed as being amazing in bed. I have dated women of every colour including Asian women and found this not to be the case. I have been with a Chinese woman, Japanese woman and a Thai woman. If I can crudely generalis, while Asian women tend to be very supple they are very easy to please sexually. I have found that Asian women reach climax far quicker than other types of women I have been with. So I guess in a round about way Asian women are the best lovers for the male ego.

      The other myth is that Asian women are more passive than other types of women. I think there is an element of truth in this when it comes to Asian born and raised Asian women (especially Japanese). But the Western Asian women I have dated have been some of the most assertive and arrogant women I have dated. I think this could be down to the fact that maybe they are aware of the stereotype the West has of Asian girls and why some men are attracted to Asian girls so they try their best not to match it.

    21. Douglas Drummin said,

      December 9, 2006 @ 04:49

      I just think why other races are looking to other races is the tiredness (is that a word lol) of people there are tired of dealing with i know with black woman its the same story if the have there stuff together they have there nose up in there air or if there struggling its always give me give me the majority of black woman have this chip on there shoulder like America owes them something i just tired of there loudness and lact of class by the way im black so dont think this is some white guy running his mouth im just tired its always something black woman need to wake up and start being humble your not the cream of the crop any more latin woman and asian women have taking over to the point you dont even want to date a black women any more why bother with the headache im sorry people im just tired of the same old thing

    22. Klownz2theLeftofMe said,

      December 9, 2006 @ 19:39

      Delboy, might I suggest that these Asian women who “reach climax far quicker than other types of women” might be,uh, more disposed to faking it? Think about it.

    23. Delboy0 said,

      December 11, 2006 @ 23:26

      Klownz2theLeftofMe lol.

      I’m a Black British dude and that means I know women fairly well. I don’t mean to be graphic but there are certain biological things you can’t fake. I said I maybe making a wrong generalisation, but in business school I learned if something happens 5 or 6 times you have a trend. Maybe I’ve been extremely lucky in my choice of Asian women.

      I think Douglas is being a bit harsh on Black women. Don’t get me wrong in England we have Black women with this attitude too, I call them the mini-Lil Kims. I don’t know about America but in Britain there are good black women out there. I think it just depends what you as a man are looking for. Being a Londoner I have dated women from all around the world of all colours. If you were to break up the female into attributes I could tell which attributes you were most likely find in a type of woman.

      Lets take these attributes as LOOKS, CHARACTER, INTELLIGENCE, WIT.

      LOOKS represent the looks of the women.

      CHARACTER represents the assertiveness and passion of the women.

      INTELLIGENCE represents high intelligence women.

      WIT is the personality of the women, talkative and how funny and humorous the women is.

      You can pretty much find women of all colours with each of these attributes, but the number of women that have each attribute varies from race to race.

      Your will find a lot of Black women with LOOKS, CHARACTER and WIT and lots of Black women with CHARACTER, INTELLIGENCE and WIT. There are black women with all four of these attributes, but very small in number. Which explains why in the UK that successful Black women tend to be single.

      Asian women tend to have LOOKS and INTELIGENCE. You may get many Asian women with LOOKS, CHARACTER and INTELLIGENCE (usually western) but the minute an Asian girl has WIT you can forget about LOOKS. I haven’t seen many beautiful funny Asian women and I think you tend to find more Beautiful Black women who are very funny.

      North European or American White women tend to have LOOKS, CHARACTER or the women have INTELLIGENCE, WIT and CHARACTER or just LOOKS and WIT. I think whites girls from these parts tend to rely more on their looks more than any other type of women, but you do get white women with looks and intelligence, but is more likely they will have character than wit, because funny beautiful white women is much rarer than assertive beautiful white women.

      South American or Mexican women have LOOKS and WIT or LOOKS and CHARACTER or INTELLIGENCE, WIT and CHARACTER. INTELLIGENCE and LOOKS is also rare in Latin women but more likely in Latin women than white women.

      Southern European (Italian, French & Spanish) women are the women you most likely to find women with all four attributes. In these places people really know how to dress so being good looking is not nearly enough to get by like it is for Northern European women. They have all the personality of black women so they have strength of character and real wit. They don’t rely on looks alone so they have a high intelligence and know how o dress and present themselves well. If you don’t believe me then see what a female lawyers looks like in America, UK, Asia and Africa and then look at females Lawyers in Italy and you will see women that look like models not lawyers. This doesn’t apply to Italian or Spanish Americans because they are very different to European Italian or Spanish people.

    24. Juko said,

      December 12, 2006 @ 06:27

      I am Japanese woman living with black man in Los Angeles. He is much too big for me, so when we love it only half way. But I love him and give him oral pleasure all the time. He has friends who are smaller and who I can take all the way. So sometimes we do three together and it is very wild times.

    25. Douglas Drummin said,

      December 12, 2006 @ 06:33

      Hey Juko if you have any girl friends in NEW YORK tell them to give me a call if they like black guys

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